5 reasons why you haven’t (yet) found love
You may be wondering Why can’t I find love? blaming yourself, bad luck or individual medical cases you struggle with know that in reality the reasons why you can’t find the right partner can always be traced back to one of these five.
** 10 mistakes that keep you from finding the right person for you **
According to a survey conducted by the Pew Research Center, today’s singles find the world of dating more difficult and complex than it has ever been, but it’s not just about meeting someone.
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Maybe in fact you’ve met many great mates or potential love interests in your life, but none has ever turned out to be the ultimate one.
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Why can’t I find love? Here are 5 possible answers
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1. Spend too much time with the wrong people
You will never find the right person by focusing on the wrong ones. The ties we keep up by force with the wrong people are preventing the right person from coming into your life.
You lack the confidence you need to demand more and move forward.
Why are you afraid to let go of the wrong partner and wait for the right one? Why are you clinging to a relationship that is less than what you want? Although these answers are probably right in front of you, they are often ignored.
If you want a definite answer and to find the right person for you then you need to let go. This means freeing your mind from the distraction of a bad relationship or the frustrations of an ex.
If you want to attract the right partner you have to clear the way ahead of you.
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2. Look for the wrong qualities in partners
Have you noticed that you happen to attract the same kind of person over and over again?
In this case, probably the reason you cannot find the right partner for you is that you are looking for the wrong person.
Try comparing your romantic failures and summarize what traits they have in common. After that try (at least once) to look for someone who does not reflect them. You may be pleasantly surprised.
3. It is you who are not ready*
There are many reasons, perhaps even unconscious, why-even though we want to find the perfect partner-we are not actually ready.
Maybe you haven’t gotten over an old love yet, aren’t ready to open up with someone else, or underneath you are more afraid than you think of putting yourself out there for real and giving up your independence. Or maybe you are afraid of suffering.
A good partner can be hard to find; even more so if you are not ready.
4. Have you been unlucky
Your friends are happily coupled or getting married, and you are still juggling bad relationships and disastrous Tinder dating? Does it feel like Cupid has a personal vendetta against you?
Everyone, at some point in life, gets to feel unlucky. And the truth is that sometimes it really does.
And unfortunately, in this case, there is nothing we can do about it: finding the right partner is also a matter of luck, and it may simply not be your time yet.
Stay calm and take the opportunity to have fun and indulge in whatever makes you feel good: the wheel – sooner or later – turns for everyone.
5. It’s simply not your time yet
Although pop culture would have us believe otherwise, there is nothing wrong with being single.
Sometimes the time simply isn’t right for a relationship: perhaps you are dealing with some emotional obstacle in your own life or simply haven’t gotten over a previous relationship.
Whatever the reason, if this is not the right time to find the right partner for you, get over it. That’s okay too.