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Chemistry in love: why it is essential that there is
Did you notice him as soon as he entered the room?
You couldn’t take your eyes off him, and since then you’ve spent whole days in bed doing cartwheels and then can’t wait to get on the merry-go-round again?
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It’s all about chemistry, an ingredient that cannot and should not be missing from your relationship.
And since, unfortunately, if it’s not there you can’t do anything to add it, we tell you why you should try to recognize it on the fly and demand that it be one of the foundations of your stories.
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It makes you recognize your soul mate
If he walks into a room, it is the chemistry that makes you recognize him among thirty people, the one that makes you sniff him from the elevator and pray he notices you.
There are men who can mess up your hormones from afar and make you want to have a magic wand to make the world and the people around you disappear.
It is the engine of beginnings
There is no denying it, it is definitely the gasoline that starts the car, without chemistry one does not decide to go beyond the first date.
It is that irrational feeling that makes you feel butterflies in your stomach, that creates lack and makes you have that overwhelming urge to see him again, and soon too.
3. It binds two people
It doesn’t always do it in the classic way of a relationship that ends in marriage and four children but it still creates strong, carnal bonds, it is a chain that is hard to break and if it exists in a relationship it unites two people in a strong way and protects them from possible future crises.
It is one of the foundations to put in the foundation, like cement makes a relationship more stable.
4. It makes you feel good
Do you know the smile you have when you are with him? Or even just when you think of him?
That’s exactly what makes you feel good that binds you together, that feeling of well-being, so simple, that makes you want to do it again and again as soon as possible.
When you tell your friend that he makes you feel good for no reason, know that it’s chemistry.
5. It’s addictive
Like anything that makes you feel good and that you really enjoy, it’s addictive: you want more and you want more, like with ice cream.
Don’t overdo it though or else it gives you a chronic stomach ache.
6. Turns you back into a teenager
It’s that energy that makes you do four o’clock in the morning, sleep two hours a night but wake up with an energy you never saw the next day.
It doesn’t matter if you have to be at the office at eight o’clock and face four hours of boring meetings, when there is chemistry the next day you might even feel ready to climb K2 in your beach slippers.
7. Gives a positive approach
Let’s face it, chemistry creates no small delusions of omnipotence, besides climbing K2 in flip-flops you will feel ready to face anything, any difficulty together.
A bit like Jon Snow and Dany, two hearts, two dragons and a long winter ahead.
If there is a strong chemistry between two people the first period will be full of good intentions, eagerness and the desire to conquer the world.
8. It doesn’t make
Stupidest things are done with the people who trigger blind and irrepressible passion, are the ones you have sex with in the strangest places, leave at midnight to go to the beach, sleep in spieggia and then go to the office the next morning.
It’s that thing that drives you many miles to see each other for even two hours, it has nothing to do with reason, but it’s just right.
9. Makes compromises acceptable
It is that thing in long relationships that makes compromises acceptable, things you would never have done for anyone else and find yourself doing for him.
Everything is not always rosy, but chemistry is that thing that makes you make up, binds you together, and makes your relationship easier.
It is that crazy spark that makes difficulties more bearable, because without him you don’t want to be and can’t be.
10. Something you can’t explain
You know when they ask you what do you see in him?
Chemistry is what explains it, no matter how handsome he is, no matter if he has lost all his hair or if he has a belly and no abs, the sound of his voice lights you up like a neon lamp.
Can’t explain it? Of course, otherwise it wouldn’t be called chemistry.
