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Couple experiments to do between the sheets to rekindle passion (or have a little fun)
Reviving passion is often the best way to energize any kind of romantic relationship and will benefit the couple far beyond the bedroom.
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Here’s why it’s important not to let habit or fatigue cause us to put the physical side of your relationship on the back burner. Or that they don’t do it too often at least.
How to rekindle passion then? Easy, by experimenting with new things together.
Warning: all that is suggested should be understood as play, obviously shared, within an established relationship.
12 couple experiments to rekindle passion
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How to rekindle passion: use a mirror
Before the lovemaking starts, place a large mirror beside the bed and watch each other in action.
It will greatly amplify arousal, try it to believe. It’s a bit like watching a sex movie together, better yet: it’s like filming yourself and watching yourself again.
Add food
If gluttony is a capital vice, gluttony + sex equals a one-way ticket to Heaven.
Hybridize food and passion by welcoming the right food between the sheets.
From aphrodisiac foods (like the classics, whipped cream and strawberries or oysters and champagne) to whatever inspires you most, experiment with what you want. Sprinkle jam on his body, drizzle honey on his neck, place succulent chocolates in the most strategic spots…
Sex combined with food amplifies pleasure because it combines sexual orgasm and culinary orgasm.
Sensuality on a literal level, with the sense of taste adding to everything.
Film yourself (and watch again)
We said before that filming and watching again is better than enjoying watching a hard film together. Well, yes: seeing yourself as the protagonist of intercourse is one of the surest ways to rekindle passion with minimal effort.
All it takes is a smartphone, but then remember to delete the video once you’ve watched it again.
The soft bondage
Nothing too complicated or reckless, just a gentle, light touch of lègami.
With a silk scarf or satin ribbon, have your wrists tied or you do it to him.
The sense of restraint and forbiddenness will give a nice burst of passion, but no knots too tight.
Choose a soundtrack that stimulates sex
In addition to the palate, the other of the five senses to tease is hearing. Moans, sensual breathing, and squeals already do their dirty work, but if you want to create a foundation of pure sensuality, aim for the right musical base-that seven-note background with a high level not of volume but of sensuality is a crazy ally of equally crazy sex.
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Just select the songs that most evoke the mood of intercourse, those whose refrain simulates an orgasm, the songs where a solo sends shivers down your spine.
Autoeroticism vis-à-vis
According to a study by the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, 72.6 percent of men experience tremendous arousal from seeing a woman intent on touching herself.
And there’s nothing to suggest that this doesn’t also apply in reverse.
So both of you indulge in autoeroticism while watching each other.
You will get aroused on the one hand by watching and on the other by the idea of being watched. A cat biting its tail pleasantly, in short.
Experimenting with it between the sheets (or anywhere since it’s a wild type) may find that it’s right for you.
Wild sex means leaving inhibitions out of the room and throwing yourself headlong into pure passion.
And for once, don’t worry about the neighbors: a few screams indulge.
The mistake people frequently make is to think of it as a friend only of autoeroticism.
Instead he is a perfect companion of the couple as well. Try to welcome him into your intimatetitude and you will find out how much it raises the level of arousal.
Disguises and role-playing
An evergreen of sex is theatricality: dressing up, playing roles that don’t belong to us, doing some healthy drama in short. All this is good for the libido so let your imagination run wild, free it from the bridle in which it is almost always forced.
So the first step is undoubtedly the dressing up, but the dress alone does not make the monk: it also takes some action, that is, role-playing.
Cast yourself in the part, building a character that perhaps you can keep alive over time — to dust off as needed.
It’s called frottage and it means rubbing bodies against each other. With bare skin or clothes, it doesn’t matter. Rubbing will cause pleasure.
Resisting penetration is part of the game: although the impulse will be to give in to the temptation, try to force yourself not to do it for half an hour or more.
When you then let go completely, the ecstasy will be double. Not to say quadruple.
Sleep in the nude
No robe, no nightgown: sleeping in your adamic costume is the best thing you can do to cultivate lust.
In fact, all it will take is for one of you to wake up with some whimsical idea in your head and you’ll see some good things.
A return to skin-to-skin contact is the most powerful foreplay you can experience.
Virtual sex
Finally, there is long-distance sex. By all means do it to keep the relationship alive, even if remotely.
You certainly don’t lack the tools: between smartphones, PCs, apps and platforms of all kinds with which you can even graduate online, let alone make respectable virtual sex.
