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Details that allow you to recognize a serial traitor (before it’s too late)
How to recognize a serial traitor before getting hurt?
Maybe you are one yourself, maybe you have been a victim of one, or maybe you have been the friend who stares in amazement at another’s cheating boyfriend without knowing what to do about it.
Either way, we have all experienced situations where someone repeatedly cheated.
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The plot is always the same: the relationship starts out in the best way, everything seems to be going great until the routine starts to take over the days, and here comes the catch. One of the two cheats.
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The consequences for the betrayed partner, if he finds out, are disappointment, mistrust, sadness and great anger.
But on closer inspection some signs could have been picked up much earlier, if only we knew what to look for.
Yeah, because there are definite characteristics that identify the serial cheater.
We explain how to recognize people who are particularly prone to cheating.
How to recognize a serial cheater from 3 seemingly harmless characteristics
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These are very insecure people
Insecurity is the basic characteristic of people who cheat.
The equation is simple: it only takes a handful of extra attention from someone that suddenly this person becomes attractive in their eyes.
At this point the appreciations become a source from which to derive the feeling of well-being they have always sought.
You enter a vicious cycle of gratification and adrenaline and are no longer willing to give it up.
This is a real caress for the insecure.
They need external gratification
Serial cheaters need external gratification because they struggle to find satisfaction within themselves.
Automatically they are people who are predisposed to seek approval, compliments, and do anything to get it.
Their manner of posing is often captivating and sensual, this triggers in the other person the idea that a game of seduction is being established.
Understand well that we are inside the dynamic of flirtation that often results in experiencing a real relationship.
The cheater likes to change
People who cheat are the same ones who often need to change.
Changing the dynamics of the couple but also the arrangement of furniture in the house or the work. Basic there is a need for new emotions so much so that stability for some becomes almost a source of fear.
What would happen if one remained stationary? Many of the serial traitors might answer that they would feel like they were dying.
In short, the cheater is not a monster but is a person who has deep voids that they try to fill with fleeting relationships.
If you are one yourself, know that you can find more functional alternatives; if you are a victim, run for your life.
