Do women give too much in love?
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Many women complain that they give too much in love, for several reasons. Their upbringing, their emotional experience, their previous disappointments in love make them more vulnerable and sensitive. Some are afraid of abandonment or indulge in playing the martyr to prove their love to the other. What is the consequence? These women find it very difficult to find happiness in their relationship…
They have a feeling of frustration and sometimes their partner feels suffocated in this kind of relationship. Many of them are overindulged in playing the role of the victim or the misunderstood one, the others say that they have done everything to make it work, but they feel unhappy because they think that they are the only ones to sincerely invest themselves. Doing the best you can to carry your relationship and adjust to your partner is not easy. Many of these women who want to give without counting the cost blame their partner for the non-reciprocity of the situation, which becomes even more painful with the non-recognition and ingratitude on the part of the one who receives this excessive love.
Women too invested in love?
It is in the nature of women to invest themselves completely in love; physically and emotionally and sometimes to give too much. The female sex does not function in the same way as the male sex. Studies on the brains of men and women seem to show that women have deeper feelings than men who have a more nuanced approach to relationships.
Men tend to be more superficial in their relationships and disconnected from their own feelings. Men also have more difficulty showing and expressing their love. As a result, women have to compensate and are more capable of expressing their love and acting with love, especially since they have a heightened physiological awareness and understanding of feelings.
Women are more equipped to love
Psychologically and emotionally… Women are much more compassionate than men and more empathetic, thus more able to love and give. Women in their great majority are able to understand what it is like to be in another person’s shoes. Even if the truth is that love is difficult to define and measure. This is because of the subjective nature of the experience. Evidence suggests that men and women differ in their expressions of emotions and descriptions of romantic thoughts. But ultimately, gender is just a construct, and not everyone will consistently share experiences based on gender expectations.
Yes, many women give too much in love!
When it comes to love, there are ultimately no rules, but science has identified some interesting patterns to consider. It is very often women who lack affection and emotional security, which leads them to act with a certain excess in their commitment to love. However, giving too much in a relationship can become toxic for the relationship, because we may expect a fair return that our partner will certainly never be able to give.
In a loving relationship, we need to be able to live with our neuroses and anxieties individually within the relationship, without expecting our partner to take on this responsibility for us. We must also be able to understand that a love relationship is lived by two people and exists thanks to the common will of two people, with their qualities and their defects, who wish to live the same adventure.
Paradox of paradoxes, suffocating your partner by an excessive emotional involvement thinking that it will prevent him/her from leaving you is an illusion that can only lead, sooner or later, to the destruction of this relationship that you were trying so hard to protect…