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He doesn’t want to be with me: how to forget an impossible love
If you have ever happened to Google the phrase He doesn’t want to be with me, you know what we are talking about.
Impossible loves hurt. So much so that we look everywhere for a solution to our pain.
And the problem is that the more we fall in love with an impossible person (impossible because he or she is already committed, because our love is unrequited, or for any other reason) the more we feel like we can’t get him or her out of our heads.
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And so we think and rethink about how we can go our separate ways, how to find peace for a situation we can no longer sustain.
Difficult, but not impossible: we give you three steps to follow to learn how to break away from someone who wants no part of a relationship.
He doesn’t want to be with me: how to forget an impossible love
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Don’t resist thoughts
The more you convince yourself that you don’t want to think about it and force yourself to think about something else, the more you will remain attached to the idea of him/her.
Besides, if we told you not to imagine a pink elephant your mind would immediately create its image.
Understand what you are really looking for
What are you looking for from a relationship?
Having your needs in mind within the couple can lead to understanding why you remain attached to that person.
More importantly, it may show you that that person is not giving you what you need.
Beware because impossible love can come to turn into an obsession that ends up straying far from the concept of love.
Put the focus back on your personal value
Getting bogged down for so long in an impossible relationship often has to do with personal value.
How much do you think you are worth? Can you recognize your own worth and direct attention to those who give you as much?
This concept is fundamental to a relationship that is grounded in mutual love.
