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Here are the signs to find out if it’s a summer crush or true love
It seems impossible, but summer is coming to an end and the reckoning is also coming for summer relationships, which could either end now along with the suitcase or turn into something serious and lasting: here’s how to figure out if it will last even after the vacations are over.
**These 5 zodiac signs will find love this summer**
The decision to start a serious relationship after the summer can be a bit tricky. And it’s hard to know what the other person is thinking, especially when you’ve only been dating for a few weeks or days.
That’s why we’ve identified 6 signs to see if it will last or if there’s no hope of your summer crush becoming something more serious.
Summer crush or true love? Here’s how to tell if it will last
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Did you spend more time celebrating than trying to get to know each other
Was it all parties and wild nights? Or did you also spend quality time getting to know each other?
Obviously having fun is important and enjoying the excitement of a new relationship is ecstatic, but it’s not enough for something more serious.
If your summer crush is made up only of fun and carefree moments, it is unlikely to mature in the months ahead.
2. You go many days without hearing from each other
Let’s face it, in this day and age there really aren’t many good excuses why someone you are dating can disappear for days without so much as a sign of life.
No one is really so busy that they can’t even send a message, especially if there is even a hint of interest.
So if you see your summer crush posting on social media but she hasn’t responded to you in days, know that she’s not thinking about you at all.
3. Do you (or do you both still use) dating apps
Do you or the person you are interested in still have dating apps active?
It can only mean one thing: they are (and you are) still open to other options that are out there.
You have never gone on a real date together
It is likely that your summer crush was born surrounded by a group of friends.
The problem, however, arises when you keep going out all the time only in the company of other people.
If you have never gone on a date together, never had dinner alone, and never even talked about going for coffee together, then the hopes of this relationship extending beyond August are slim.
5. He has never introduced you to his friends
This is the opposite case of the previous point.
In the case where you started dating only the two of you, and after weeks of dating you never met his friends, then it is likely that he has no serious intentions.
6. Don’t arrange (and never talk about) seeing each other in the future
If your summer crush proposes to see each other and do something, whether it’s next week or next month, then he is likely to have an interest.
When he is willing to commit to an activity in advance, it is assumed that he is interested in staying. If he is not, however, the hopes of your relationship maturing into something more are slim.
