Why don’t men court anymore? The answer from psychology
Are you wondering why men don’t court anymore? Actually, you have a point: unfortunately, courtship lately is often skipped in...
How do you know if it’s the right one?
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This is it! You’re in a relationship with the one you love! His/her home has become your home and vice versa. You go shopping together and his/her pet has accepted you (let’s be honest, he/she prefers you!). You feel so good in his or her presence and to think that one day you lived without him or her seems strange… Only this same question keeps coming up: Is he or she the one?
Ah you’ll see, you’ll see…
The first question you have to ask yourself to be sure is: can you imagine making plans with this person? And yes! It is the sinequanone condition for a couple to last! Do you see yourself getting married, taking their name or even buying a house together? Think about it! It is essential to be able to project yourself without too much difficulty with your partner. If this is your case, then you are on the right track!
The curve of your eyes…
Another encouraging factor is simply feeling good when he or she looks at you at any time of the day. Ladies, a man who tells you he prefers you without makeup is not an obnoxious liar, he is a man in love! Gentlemen, a woman who asks you incongruous questions about the basics of soccer is not a nuisance, she is a woman who is interested in you and your hobbies! If you feel free to be who you really are in front of this person without fear of ridicule, then you’re on the right track!
…goes around my heart.
But the most important thing in all of this: you love him! Love is a strange feeling but so fascinating! If the mere thought of waking up next to him in the morning puts you in a good mood, if the smell of his shower gel makes you completely crazy or insane, if his laughter resonates directly in your heart… Then why ruin it all with questions that you will not find an answer to? Go for it! Live all these moments to the fullest and don’t hesitate a single second! You want to know if it’s the right one? So be it! Take a deep breath and trust yourself! Happiness is not so far away, you just have to let yourself go and seize it…
