Why don’t men court anymore? The answer from psychology
Are you wondering why men don’t court anymore? Actually, you have a point: unfortunately, courtship lately is often skipped in...
How do you know if you are in love?
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Ah…here’s an old question, or almost old!
One of the first indicators: you are constantly thinking about the other
You get up, you think about him or her, you go to bed, you think about it again… But that’s not all, a traffic jam and your mind wanders close to him or her. Forget about the other cars, forget about the scowling drivers, your thoughts are far away! Even better, a boring meeting? A binding appointment? As soon as it’s possible, as soon as you’re no longer under fire or it’s no longer your turn to speak: you think about your loved one! Everything becomes easier: he or she exists, he or she accompanies you everywhere, life is more beautiful, the people much more pleasant! Of course, you are with them just a little bit!
You sing without stopping!
Even if you are not a true music lover, even if music does not usually bring you more joy than that and often it is little more than a soundtrack for you… suddenly, you live music, the slightest word speaks to you, reminds you of a moment with the loved one, the smallest melody makes you vibrate…
Butterflies in the stomach
When you are in love, talking to the other person, being close to him/her, feeling him/her near you is a delight and a torment!
Your whole body is in turmoil, as if winter had just left and a wonderful spring was finally appearing! Your heart beats faster, your hands are sweaty, your throat is dry sometimes, your movements a little jerky… it’s normal… you have to get used to this happiness… It’s not so common to be in love: to be in perfect heart/body/soul harmony with another human being! It is a small miracle, your brain knows it well! And it doesn’t have an easy task, it has to remain the conductor of a body that swarms in all directions, that tends to forget the societal customs… what a challenge!
Even his or her faults move you…
One of the last points that will help you to know if you are in love is to realize that even the other person’s habits, which could be considered as faults or which usually exasperate you, even in your acquaintances, suddenly you find them charming… 14725At his place, it’s so good, so much better, even so much more charming…
No doubt, you are addicted!
