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How to behave on a first date with a person met online
You finally feel like you have met the right person.
Or rather, on paper (or on screen) it might be.The fact is that the face-to-face when it comes to chemistry plays a key role, and you are afraid that the first date in the real world may turn out to be very different from what you hope for.Now, however, it is time to set aside expectations and (dis)illusions and begin to enjoy the sensations of this new encounter.
Here are four simple, targeted tips that will help you figure out what to do on your first date so that it will be a success (at least as far as you are concerned).
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First impression is crucialIt seems that people form an idea about you in the first few minutes of the first meeting.
And that idea will be very difficult to change later.
Understand well then the importance of appealing to the senses and showing yourself groomed, perfumed, radiant and above all smiling.
You can convey good vibes and make sure that the new him will not easily forget that meeting.
Feeling beautiful then will subconsciously help you feel more confident and convey this confidence to the outside world with the way you do things.
Don’t overdo it with makeup and clothesDon’t go overboard with make-up or grand gala dresses; you’ll risk putting those in front of you in awe and achieve the opposite effect than desired.
Rather aim for a look that you feel comfortable in, that enhances and represents you.
Once again: you will feel more confident, and you will also convey this to those in front of you.
Don’t try to impress him at all costs.Long live simplicity.
Don’t go in search of big events to tell, big words to blurt out or who knows what situations to impress the other person.
Just be yourself, let the (suitor) partner be able to discover in small steps who you are, what resources you have and how to fit them in with the image he had made of you by getting to know you virtually.Listen to your feelingsLive those moments by listening to your belly.
Instead of obsessing wondering if this time will be the right one, try to listen to what your gut tells you, listen to the feelings and how you feel with this person.
Sometimes the senses know the answers long before reason.
