Why don’t men court anymore? The answer from psychology
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How to behave on the first date?
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Be yourself!
The first date, just like the first impression, is decisive… Maybe because all first encounters call upon our famous instinct, you know the one that allowed us to run away without wasting time in front of a mammoth, not to hesitate in front of danger, in a few words to save our skin! Also, it reappears during the first times of a contact in order to analyze for us if it is dangerous or not, translated in contemporary terms: if it is going to match or not… Also, nothing will be worth the naturalness concerning your behavior and your answers to lay the good foundations of a relationship.
More beautiful apple than poor pear
Who says natural, does not say let go in dress or lack of tact in the words. Like the apple in Snow White, be sure to present your best side, the bright one that makes you want to be seen! There is inevitably a worm in the fruit, but don’t focus on it right away and don’t make yourself look like a beautiful exotic fruit or a poor little pear!
Metaphors aside, for a first date, keep in mind that there is no point in playing a role: focus on your physical and psychological strengths.
Think you’re too luscious? Go for a nice neckline in a clean and chic blouse! Are you shy? Assume that it’s because you care about others, that you’re considerate… it’s a great quality, so don’t be embarrassed about it!
Happiness, Complicity, Simplicity
Concerning the themes to be approached and the story to be told: it is simple: you at the top!
Not a fantasized you, but a you that exists: the one you are with your successes and your optimistic and realistic short-term desires. There is no need to talk about marriage, the house and the dog! Simply talk about the desire for happiness, the desire for moments together in sharing, the simplicity of exchanges!
Do not dwell on past relationships
The last point to remember is that you should avoid saying too much about your past relationships. They are over, they had their good and bad sides, period. And above all, do not denigrate your former lovers, it would give a very bad image of you.and could be at the origin of a new journey for two never started…
