Why don’t men court anymore? The answer from psychology
Are you wondering why men don’t court anymore? Actually, you have a point: unfortunately, courtship lately is often skipped in...
How to find love on the internet?
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Ah internet! What a wonderful tool! So much so that no one today could imagine doing without it. Need to know absolutely the post office hours? To find a good Sushi for that girlfriend you haven’t seen in ages and who’s coming in ten minutes? Or even just to prove your colleague wrong? Only one answer: the internet! So when so many people are in the same place looking for something, why not take advantage of it to find THE thing we are all looking for? Love with a capital A!
Apple is a man or a woman… As a certain singer said!
And that’s quite a program! Indeed, to find love, on the net moreover, is to take the risk of having the choice. Too many choices. Ladies and gentlemen, if you want something lasting, you have to make a selection! Dating sites are like big train stations: people arrive from everywhere, some have just landed, others have been there for a long time, but all are in a hurry to leave for other horizons. Don’t be like them! There is no need to rush to find the right person. Let’s see, do you really want to go back with the first person you meet and then discover that he or she is an absolute fan of crying baby soundtracks? Be sure of what you want but also what you are willing to compromise on.
Opposites attract
Get to know your potential crush! Be curious, show your best side and get him/her to talk about you. Don’t stay stuck on your opinions, don’t forget that you are meeting your soul mate, and that he/she is very unlikely to be the exact replica of the idea you had. Cultivate the difference! Of course it’s nice to share passions with your partner, but it gets boring to only talk about what brings you together. Don’t be afraid to discover new things, maybe you’ll even enjoy learning about them with him/her!
Birds of a feather flock together…
However! If you don’t have to share all your interests, you still have to find subjects or values on which you will agree! Common grounds are essential to the creation of aa fulfilled couple. All of this requires getting to know each other! It falls rather well, you are there to discuss and you have all your time. Don’t be stingy with your questions, you have the right and you must find out before taking such a step forward! Be sure that this person will be there in case of a hard blow or that the discussion will always remain possible, because as we say so well: to be in couple is to know how to solve problems that we would not have had alone. Or again: Love is looking together in the same direction. Ah these proverbs…
