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How to forget an ex-boyfriend in 4 steps
Did you break up long ago and still have tissues by the side of the bedside table for moments of despondency? We explain how to forget an ex-boyfriend and take back your life once and for all.
** Here are the zodiac signs that get back with the ex most often **
If you have the feeling (or fear) that you will never be able to move on and will remain single and unhappy forever, first of all, get it out of your head!
** Help, I dreamed about my ex! That’s what it means **
If your relationship is over, it means that there are reasons that, one way or another, sooner or later, you were going to get shipwrecked anyway.
And moving on is possible and easier than it seems to you now, you just have to know how.
How to get over an ex-boyfriend in 4 steps
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How to get over an ex: first, allow yourself to grieve (for a while)
There is no point in forcing yourself not to grieve or not to think right away: take the moments of melancholy as something natural that will take another form with time.
At first you will have to accept that you will experience sadness without opposing it, otherwise it will multiply and remain for much longer than it should.
You are idealizing it: come back to reality
When you experience the end of a relationship you will remember only the good things.
Magically all the times when we didn’t get along well with each other situations or words disappear into thin air and only romantic and beautiful moments experienced together are relived in the memory.
You are idealizing your ex, come back to reality and also remember all the things you were no longer comfortable with.
How to forget an ex? Start over with you
To change things you also have to do something.
You won’t need to shut yourself off from the world thinking and rethinking about the two of you, looking at photos and wondering why it ended.
Start over with yourself, try to cultivate relationships that make you feel good, form new relationships, enrich yourself through hobbies and interests that are only yours, and find who you are.
Stop feeling incomplete
The story of finding half the apple is for those who think they are incomplete.
You are the whole apple, the person next to you may be able to make you shinier but you are already shinier on your own.
That is why you need to know that you have all the resources you need to be better than before, it is time to discover them.
