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How to know if a man is serious on a dating site?
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Sign up for a serious dating site like Jetrouvelamour.com 😉 it’s done. Start chatting with profiles that interest you, it’s also done. The question now is what your virtual correspondent thinks about your relationship. Here are some tips to better understand his intentions and know if he is serious.
Take an interest in their photos
It was probably their profile picture that first caught your attention. However, there is nothing to stop you from looking at his other photos. If they tend to show off their muscles, they are probably trying to draw attention to their body. If many of his photos show him with beautiful women, he may be a seducer who is more interested in flings than serious affairs. On the other hand, a man who is looking for a serious relationship will tend to remain relatively sober, without exposing his physical assets too much, without making an excessive display of wealth…. So to begin with, simplicity will be a good sign.
Analyze his favorite subjects
You have been talking to him regularly for a while now, but what are you talking about? A man in search of stability will talk about many subjects with ease. He will talk to you about travel, work, family, gradually offering you several facets of himself. He will not hesitate to reveal you a little of his intimacy, to make you small confidences with the aim of reinforcing your relationship
See if he seeks to know you
A relationship goes both ways. Instead of just telling you about himself and his life, a man who wants a lasting love relationship will want to get to know you more. Be careful, though, because getting to know you shouldn’t lead him to ask you about anything too intimate, such as what kind of lingerie you like. He will rather be interested in your personality by asking you, for example, what made you sign up on the site. He can also ask you about your musical tastes, your origins, the activities you like the most…. If they are really interested in you, you are probably on the right track.
Check his availability
Nobody is connected 24 hours a day, that’s obvious. However, a serious man who aspires to a lasting relationship will make sure to be available for you. They will not be satisfied with 2 or 3 words to answer your 10 lines. If his reply is late, he will be sure to apologize, or even give you a plausible excuse. Following this same logic, he will not systematically try to put an end to your discussions. In one way or another, he will try to prolong your exchanges.
Make sure he takes his time
A solid relationship is built on good foundations and a serious man will not take the risk of rushing into things. He will therefore be courteous in his comments and will not try to get you into bed on the first date. This is his way of letting you choose whether or not to pursue this relationship.
