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How to know if a woman is serious on a dating site?
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Once you’ve found THE serious dating site (ours if possible 😉 ) you’ve found that woman you like so much, with whom you keep up a regular correspondence and who is starting to occupy an ever-growing place in your mind… So your relationship seems to be moving in the right direction. You get along well, that’s great, but is she really interested in a serious relationship? These few leads will confirm that yes, your partner is looking for a long-term commitment.
She is very interested in your opinion about her
You can see from your exchanges that she is trying to please you, to occupy an important place in your daily life. Even if the physical meeting has not yet taken place, she is trying by all means to hold your attention. She can ask you about what you think of her appearance, her outfit of the day, photo or video, she can involve you in her decisions (conflict at work, problem with relatives, choice of a travel destination…). A woman who wants to please you as much by her appearance as by the other aspects of her personality is certainly on the lookout for a serious relationship.
She does not hesitate to initiate exchanges
If you were only a passing fancy, it would not make her hot or cold not to discuss with you. If, on the other hand, she comes by just to say hello or is often the first to start conversations, it means she is really interested. Initiating interactions is her way of letting you know that she appreciates the time you spend together virtually and that she plans to pursue this relationship on a more serious level.
She’s curious about you
She doesn’t hesitate to ask you questions that go beyond the classic what do you do for a living. In fact, she is interested in everything about you: places you’ve been, your favorite drink, your family, what you usually do in your spare time…. She’ll want to know why you like what you do or why you make decisions. She becomes involved in your discussions, trying to find out more about you. A keen interest usually reflects a desire to take the relationship further. In other words, she is probably considering a future with you by evaluating the potential of the relationship.t what your presence at his side could bring him.
She’s looking for common ground
You can tell from the way she answers and questions you that she’s looking for common ground, for things that will help her connect to your world. Consciously or not, she’s trying to make you understand that she’s the woman who’s right for you, the one that Cupid has chosen for you.
She is jealous
She does not hesitate to have a little fit of impatience or jealousy when you take too long to answer her or when you mention other women (childhood friend, sister…). In fact, she is afraid of losing you because she really wants to occupy an important place in your life. This means that she is really interested and is afraid to share your affection (attention). This is a common manifestation of a desire to get into a lasting relationship.
