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How to recognize your soul mate?
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Like most people, you are looking for your significant other. That perfect person who completes you, and from whom you can never be separated. But you’ve been searching for so long, you may have come to doubt their existence. What if you simply haven’t recognized your soul mate yet?It’s not as easy as you might think. There are signs that don’t deceive. But some can be very subtle. It is not enough to be a fusional couple to build the future together.
The attraction we feel when we meet someone, as strong as it may be, does not necessarily assure us that we have found the right person. The one with whom everything becomes possible, and without whom you can no longer envisage the future.
You’ve probably already wasted enough time with people who didn’t fit you when you thought you’d fallen in love at first sight, it’s time to learn what meeting your soul mate is like.
The signs that do not deceive
YOU FEEL GOOD TOGETHER, IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES
Two soul mates will be at ease with each other, whether it is to discuss delicate subjects, to laugh about everything, and even the moments of silence do not scare them.
YOU HAVE A LOT IN COMMON
Whether it’s your taste in food, art or sports, there are countless activities you can enjoy together. You are complementary. Some of your differences allow you to complement each other in everyday life. He/she doesn’t like to cook? That’s a good thing! You’re a real chef in the kitchen…
YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE ONE
You immediately feel fulfilled in the presence of the other, as if that half of you that you were missing was finally there. When you really love each other, you can’t do without each other. Even when you are separated, you always keep a thought for the loved one, and you feel permanently in love with him/her.
YOU ARE ON THE SAME WAVE
Your future plans are similar or complementary, and you can see your future with each other without any particular obstacle. From the very first moments you spent together, you felt the obvious: with this person, you will never experience heartache. You loved him/her almost instantly.
The way others look at you doesn’t deceive. They find you both adorable and point this out regularly. They see how your love for each other is meant to last. To them, too, your relationship is a given.
The hidden signs of true love
While the signals mentioned above are quite blatant, some remain rather discreet. They are no less important. It is necessary to pay a very particular attention to all your exchanges with your partner, to know if it is indeed him/her that you waited for so long.
YOU ACCEPT THE PERSON YOU LOVE AS SHE IS
As we all know, there is no such thing as a perfect person. We all have our qualities and flaws. When you met him/her, you quickly discovered all the qualities that made you fall in love with this person. And as the days go by, you discover their little, and big, flaws.
Once you find the true love of your life, you will see that his or her flaws won’t bother you that much. It will be easy for you to adapt to them and learn to live with them.
You will love this person in his or her entirety, and he or she will do the same. A harmonious couple is made up of two people who know how to accept each other completely.
YOU FEEL HAPPY
Two people in a relationship do not necessarily spend every minute together. To be solidly in love, you need to feel free and happy in all aspects of your life.
You need to know how to make time for yourself, for your work, for your friends, and for the hobbies you enjoy. And this must be done without each other.
It’s great to share common passions. But it is always a real pleasure to think about yourself for a few moments, and to be able to find your loved one afterwards. These short moments of separation are so many reunions that you will have a lot of pleasure to live together.
They are also moments where you will be able to think of each other, with a hint of lack. This will reinforce your conviction that you are made for each other. Two soul mates feel just as much in love in the presence of the one they love as they do in their absence.
No emotional dependence can be established between you, your partner must also know how to take the time to do activities without you, and enjoy them.
Happiness is communicative, so always take care of yourself, and do not neglect what makes you happy.
A SPECIFIC LINK BETWEEN YOU
You’ll find out soon enough, when you’ve found the person who fits you best, a unique relationship will quickly unite you. You will understand each other without speaking, you will anticipate each other’s thoughts, you may even be able to feel events that the other is experiencing while you are not together.
For example, if the other has worries that prevent him/her from sleeping, you may wake up in the morning with this feeling of lack of sleep and annoyance, without knowing why, and then you will realize that it comes from your partner who is going through a difficult time.
From the very beginning of your love story, you will feel an inexplicable attraction to this person, and your feelings will no longer be able to be controlled by your reason. It may seem supernatural, and maybe it is, but true love can’t always be explained.
To find the love of your life, don’t be in a hurry. Don’t try to rush things. Take the time to get to know the person you just met. If you want to go too fast, you could get the wrong person and realize after a while that he or she may not be right for you.
