Why don’t men court anymore? The answer from psychology
Are you wondering why men don’t court anymore? Actually, you have a point: unfortunately, courtship lately is often skipped in...
If you are looking for love you should use Tinder (for at least these 3 good reasons)
For many years dating sites and later dating apps were regarded as a hangout for unfortunate people who failed to find love in real life.
Or, conversely, of people looking for temporary (or impromptu) flings.
Few admitted to using Tinder for fear of being judged.
Today – fortunately – that has all changed.
Tinder is considered a platform for exchanging and possibly meeting the boyfriend but also for new friendships. Over time it has become one of many ways to meet people in the territory who have lives compatible with our interests.
And this has made it really possible now to find one’s soul mate there.
But that’s not all: using a dating app and putting yourself out there could help you manage relationships in your offline life as well.
Here’s why.
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You will exponentially increase your chances of meeting new people
Tinder is used by fifty million users worldwide, and even many celebrities-though often incognito-take advantage of its potential.
It works so that you can filter the people you may be interested in by setting the age and the area of the country where you want to find them.
Also only people to whom you have put your heart of appreciation will be able to contact you, and only if they put it in their turn.
This will allow you to really select the people you will make contact with, but exponentially expand your chances of meeting new people compared to those you would have by limiting yourself to the offline world.
It will help you figure out what you are looking for and what you don’t like
Even if you don’t find (right away) the man of your life on Tinder, you can still use it to figure out what you need and what you really don’t want.
The way you decide to present yourself–what photos, how many, what kind of description you will put of yourself–and the parameters you choose for the search–age range and geographic area in the first place, but also then choice criteria for swiping right or left, will force you to get clarity about who you are and what you are looking for.
These are issues that we would do well to have clear in real life as well, but which we rarely dwell on.
You will practice courtship
At first you can take it as a game. Look at photos of possible partners, put a little heart, scroll or linger.
Then the first positive feedback will start coming in, you can start a conversation and get to know each other better. Don’t necessarily wait for others to write, you can start you without expectations but with good intentions.
All this movement will increase the desire to get involved.
And above all, it will allow you to practice all those relationship dynamics that you may have set aside, because you are coming from a long story or maybe because on the contrary you have not been in a relationship for a long time.
It won’t cost you anything and it will lead you to new experiences.
