Why don’t men court anymore? The answer from psychology
Are you wondering why men don’t court anymore? Actually, you have a point: unfortunately, courtship lately is often skipped in...
List of 7 key love killers for women
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You women… You charm… Your smiles attract us, disarm us… (Julio Iglesias)
Yes, yes, we know the song… Ladies, even if you think you’re at the height of your sex appeal, know that some of your habits are prohibitive in the eyes of men and in two words kills love so kills the physical connection therefore kills the desire… Besides, you know that female and male psychologies are different and sometimes even totally opposed, so what may seem attractive or insignificant to you may turn out to be downright repulsive to a man: it’s not what you want? Luckily, we are here to make you aware of this 🙂
1. Questionable hygiene
Yikes, it smells like a little girl neglecting herself…
Know that the body gives off a natural odor that is impossible to get rid of with perfume, that’s why we say: haro on the cheaters! Yes, ladies, cosmetics are not only makeup, they are also toiletries and we will even go so far as to say intimate hygiene, which is very important! So, in order not to smell like a skunk, a daily shower is a must!
Also, a woman worthy of the name must take great care of her physical appearance in order not to give off a dirty image in the eyes of her beloved who would then not want to approach her under any circumstances. So avoid: oily skin, especially if it is accompanied by those delicious little purulent pustules (yuck!), greasy hair, dirty and unkempt nails.
Our advice: To avoid this horror vision, use and abuse skin care products and body lotions (it makes your skin soft and delicately scented :-)), pamper your nails: without going so far as to demand a perfect manicure, they must be cleaned regularly. And finally, pamper your little feet, a part of your anatomy that is much looked at by these gentlemen. Prepare your little inspection checklist to be checked on a daily basis!
2. unsightly hair
Hair has a virile connotation. As much as women like hair, most of whom find it sexy on the opposite sex, men consider it to be one of the ultimate love killers: this is understandable, as a woman symbolizes gentleness and a man’s love for his wife.This is the only way to achieve a more refined look, which is incompatible with unsightly hair.
So, ladies, you’re probably thinking about waxing your legs and underarms, but you’re leaving out areas that are not important to you but which, if left unkempt, are repulsive to many. But what is this pile of hair?! Your eyebrows, your mustache, your arms and worst of all, your bikini line! If the guy wants to see a grizzly bear, he goes to the zoo!
Our advice: A serious regular pruning is necessary! And for those who are a little more dainty, as the saying goes to be beautiful, you have to suffer, here’s the way to go to lure the one you love.
3. letting go
Most men don’t appreciate girls who are too sophisticated and give off a superficial image and prefer natural girls. However, the term natural is not to be taken at face value either. In particular, on a first date: you won’t get a second chance to make a good first impression (Coco Chanel).
What does letting go mean? Of course, this includes hygiene and hair, but other very important aspects should also be taken into account: hair as messy as when you jump out of bed, non-existent make-up, chipped varnish, lack of clothing style or an outdated look: ill-fitting clothes, granny panties, girdles, sloggy pants or knee-high socks that leave the marks of the elastics on your calves… Mmm glamorous! Flat shoes that do not enhance your figure…
If you complete this charming description with a moral let-go, you have the panoply of the embittered old maid who has given up seduction and it is in any case the image that you will convey in the eyes of your love prey who will judge your lack of character and will not be curious to get to know you better
4. Vulgarity
The vulgar prefers the grandiose and the flashy to the solid and the useful (Giacomo Leopardi)
Vulgarity is an anti-feminine character trait associated with lack of refinement and rudeness. In addition, a vulgar woman often wants to be dominant and too enterprising with men and does not let them do their work of seduction, which is castrating for these dear gentlemen.
In a woman, vulgarity is expressed as much by her clothing as by her appearance.She has a very naked and daring appearance (plunging neckline, mini skirt…) or trucker style but also by her frankness and by her teasing and very in-your-face attitude towards men. Everything a man hates! It’s an illusion to think that the more you show a man, the more he will be seduced.
Our advice: Favour discretion and suggestion rather than provocation, positive results guaranteed: like a pretty rose, your partner will be delighted to strip you of your leaves as he pleases…
5. You’re smothering him!
Follow me I run away from you, run away from me I follow you!
Too many questions, too many reproaches, sickly jealousy, premature future plans… Carried away by your ardor in love, you let yourself go to heavy, oppressive and even childish attitudes: detach yourself from your ego, let go and tell yourself that your lover is not your toy!
Our advice: You can of course express your fears or even your dream of starting a family in a very light-hearted way, but don’t stalk him. Know that a man needs to breathe in a relationship and he must be able to keep control of the situation. So if you want to scare him, annoy him and lose him, keep going 🙂
6. Calimero in all its glory
Calimero is that half-hatched chick characterized by his it’s really too unfair expression. Like him, everything for you is a pretext to complain as if a meteor shower was falling on your little person. You are in a loop in your logorrhea, sometimes even going so far as to evoke your exes without realizing the negative or even indelicate image that you are sending back to the other person. You are sulking, you only talk about yourself, you pose as a victim but where is the seduction in all this? Not to mention your never-ending draconian diet that annoys many people.
Our advice: Stop whining and take responsibility! Forget your egocentricity and open up more to get to know the charming man in front of you. Know that men appreciate women who are lively, comfortable, smiling and greedy… So make an effort and next time don’t be reluctant to taste that delicious hamburger you want so much and enjoy the moment!
7. L’Etoile de Mer under the comforter!
You areare literally spectators of the sexual act. You let your man lead the dance without ever taking any initiative. Either you are selfishly thinking only of your own pleasure or you undergo the thing by invoking all the Gods so that this torture ends as soon as possible. But this one-way game doesn’t last long and quickly cools the other down.
Our advice: if you want to take pleasure and give it to your partner, lift your inhibitions (complexes and false beliefs) and be an actress in your sexual life and not a spectator, express yourself and dare to realize your wildest fantasies to the great happiness of your lover who will ask for more… And you too!
