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Signs to know if you are dating a psychopath
It happens to all of us sooner or later to run into the psychopath on duty, and unfortunately it also happens to get a crush on him and make it a form of obsession.
Beware, however, because they can bring you to the brink of a nervous breakdown: here’s how to recognize them and learn to understand that it’s not you who has something wrong, you’re just dating the wrong one.
The important thing is to be aware of it and escape as soon as possible.
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He gives you rope if you don’t answer, he doesn’t do it if you look for him
They are the ones who ask for your phone number, chase you and look for you but only until you don’t consider him at all.
If you start looking for him, they answer you in monosyllables or don’t answer you at all, so much so that you end up feeling crazy and win the prize for the most messages thrown into thin air and not answered.
The message thrown to those who ignore it has a definite sound, that of failure. Direct your attention to those who want it or can receive it.
He has a strange way of hitting on you
He doesn’t approach you in a normal or quiet way, he reacts disproportionately if you pack him because you are tired and decides not to answer the phone to punish you.
He asks you out with messages in caps lock that sound more like threats than invitations, he just happens to be in the bar where you posted a story and then however once you are there he doesn’t speak to you.
In short, more like an anxious attack on your sanity than courtship.
It’s impossible to understand
You never know if he’s joking or serious, but you also don’t understand what he’s writing to you.
Whenever he sends you a message it always seems like he is teasing you or insulting you, you also wonder why he chose you to vent his anger towards the female gender and you never, ever know what to reply and whether to reply.
In most cases anyway in the middle of a conversation he will visualize and not respond.
He brings out the worst in you
He is able to bring out the worst in you and he also wants to bring it out, he figures out how to get you out of divine grace, he finds that button and presses it until he has gotten your worst reaction and then looks at you calmly and tells you that he is calm as hell and he really doesn’t understand why you are getting so upset.
You are in danger of going to jail for murder.
He makes you feel wrong
He has the art of turning the tables on you, making you feel like there is something wrong with you, that it is wrong, unsuitable.
It’s you who have no sense of humor, it’s you who chase him even if he responds in monosyllables, it’s you who take it too hard and are in premenstrual.
Change your phone number and run like hell or you’ll really go crazy because you can’t keep up with his constant version changes.
Know that you are not the one who doesn’t understand things, he is the one who twists and turns them to his liking.
It’s creepy
So much so that you don’t really know why you decided to hang out with him, he always looks at you funny and you can never really understand what’s going on in his head.
He says he is shy but always wants to be the center of attention and always makes yourfriends, just for the sake of looking weird and interesting.
Plus nothing he does seems natural, but everything seems incredibly constructed.
He is weird on social
He does not follow you but knows your instagram profile by heart, never likes you, sends you messages that he then deletes after you have already viewed them, and looks at all your stories a second after you post them.
Plus he is usually a haters, hates everything and everyone and only posts where he insults things, people and events that happened.
That alone should make you scream help, help, help.
He says he needs to disappear
He doesn’t just need his own space, he really needs to disappear into thin air, he justifies it with the fact that he needs his own space and that it’s healthy to be alone for a while.
Too bad it is impossible to contact him or find him, not even the CIA can find him, plus you know when he disappears but no one can know when he will return.
And the problem is that he comes back.
