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Signs to tell if your boyfriend is also your best friend
Is your boyfriend also your best friend? It should always be so, because finding someone who understands us so well, knows us inside out, and can make us laugh like no one else in the world is a rare and therefore beautiful thing.
** Those who use nicknames in relationships are more likely to be a happy couple (science says so) **
There are signs that tell us this unequivocally: we have chosen ten.
If you tick at least 7 of them you can consider yourself a great couple.
10 signs to tell if your boyfriend is also your best friend
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You are engaged to your best friend when you have the same sense of humor
There are people who make you laugh and people who simply make you want to create a trapdoor in the floor to be moved immediately to the level below, even when you are on the ground floor.
Do you ever get fizzled out after a joke?
In those seconds your brain is trying to figure out what to do and how to come out of it.
What is better than a man who can make you laugh and who laughs at your jokes? It is one of the things that most builds rapport and bonding in a couple.
He is your best evening companion
You have been invited to a party and you have no doubt, the person you will have the most fun with in the world is your boyfriend.
It means you are the life of the party for each other.
What could be better than having a good time, getting drunk, going home and exercising a lot together? The next day you can also enjoy hangover on the couch watching trashy movies.
You can always tell him how you feel (like a best friend, in fact)
From emotional dramas to premenstrual meltdowns, via unmotivated anger and hysterical happiness.
You don’t have to hide how you feel from him; he knows you well enough to know when to take you seriously, when to buy a plane ticket, and when to console you.
Or he may even tell you to go to hell, if that’s what you need.
You are also fine when you spend your days doing nothing together
Is there anything better in the world than doing nothing?
Than those long days spent watching TV series, cooking, drinking glasses of wine, talking about everything and making love?
If you don’t need anything else what is the point of going out?
You are a very strong team (in all areas)
None of your friends dream of being able to beat you at Risk in Trivial Pursuit, scientific broom or Mario Kart.
Those who have tried will never challenge you again. You are better than Frank and Claire Underwood (before the crisis), together you could make it to the White House
He is your biggest fan
He is never jealous of your successes; on the contrary, he helps you achieve them and is happy when you succeed.
He is not the kind of competitive boyfriend who always has to prove he does better than you to feel like a man.
He is always on the front line cheering you on, even when you get demotivated or are in a tough spot – of course you do the same for him.
You’re always the best couple at masquerade parties
Masquerade parties are important, and when you’re with someone with the same sense of humor as you, you can even be children again together and have fun coming up with original costumes with which to amaze everyone.
You’re comfortable with him even when you don’t feel sexy at all
The morning after a hangover, made-up, with dirty hair after a week of flu, pre-cycle pimples or in flannel pajamas.
You can sport sexy lingerie with him, but you also feel beautiful wearing a slabby T-shirt with heart bears.
He knows when you are lying
If you are getting into lie territory he can tell; if there is something wrong or you are hiding from him he can feel it.
You are so in tune that non there are secrets between you and if you try to tell a lie he looks at you with Arnold’s face and says, What the heck are you talking about, Willis? 147252
You miss each other when you’re not together
You miss each other, you tell each other every ten minutes, people around you can’t stand you, even your friends can’t stand you but what can you do, when you’re not together you feel like a cupcake without the topping.
