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The importance of taking care of yourself to seduce
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You are a great person, funny, unique, some would even say fabulous (a hello to all our moms who flatter us) only you can’t necessarily find the person who thinks the same about you. Maybe you just don’t have the right head for the job.
And yes, by dint of living with yourself, you know yourself but the others don’t know anything about all the treasures that sleep in you. So how do you get your loved one to want to know more about you? How to seduce while remaining yourself?
Mirror my beautiful mirror…
We are not going to lie to ourselves, in a society such as ours, it is very difficult, if not impossible, to seduce without going through the bathroom as fabulous as it may be. In the game of seduction, you have to know how to make people want to be seduced.
Let’s take a more down-to-earth example: in a pastry shop, the most beautiful cakes always make you want to be seduced, even if they’re not as good as the ones that are less shiny. Well, in real life, at least in love life, it’s exactly the same principle!
Do you want to seduce? Then start by pleasing yourself! Before getting dressed in the morning (or putting on makeup for the ladies) think about this cruelly effective phrase that comes from our friend Coco Chanel: Dress as if you were going to meet your worst enemy, your ex and the love of your life in the same day. Things look different now…
Beyond seducing your entourage, taking care of yourself in terms of clothing will only increase your confidence and morale. All in all, it’s a plus…
I feel good in my bath!
Beyond the elementary necessity to ensure an irreproachable hygiene, do not neglect the importance of a good bath (or a good shower) for your wellbeing that it is physical or mental.
Make your bath a moment of pure pleasure, just for you. Don’t hesitate to buy that shampoo that smells so good or that moisturizing cream that you’ve been wanting to buy but haven’t dared to put in your basket.
Seduction is also essentially about well-being, yours. People can sense when a person is not feeling well and this is a real turn-off for the heart. Reconcile with yourselfaround a skin mask (this also applies to you gentlemen) can also be a vector of well-being and therefore attraction. Learn to make yourself feel better and you will see that your ability to seduce will be greatly increased.
