things to do when you break up
When you break up after an initial moment when it is inevitable (and even recommended) to pity and grieve in order to process, you have to get back on track.
Roads part and lives change, everyday life is transformed and has to be rebuilt from scratch.
It is time for revolution, change, headshots and impulsive decisions.
It is a time to be less strict with oneself, to forgive oneself some excesses.
What are the things that will help you feel better? We have chosen ten that will get you off to a great start in your new life.
(Continued below photo)Redecorating Home
When we break up, even if we did not share a home, it will be inevitable to see reminders of the failed history everywhere.
Start the change from here: you don’t need a big budget or change all the furniture, just move something, repaint the walls, change the arrangement of pictures on a wall.
Rebuild, literally, around a new life.
It’s up to you to arrange it the way you like it.
Being late at night
You are late, you are back single and no one is waiting for you at home.
The best way to regain your good mood is to look on the bright side of things – and specifically it means not being accountable to anyone.
Besides, better out partying than at home crying tears into your pillow: go dancing and don’t come home before dawn.Booking a trip
The world is so big and there are lots of places to see.
Book a trip for your next vacation, why not, even by yourself if no one goes with you.
Just the gesture of confirming flight payment will make you overjoyed and proud to have done it, then all you have to do is wait for departure and in the meantime plan the itinerary.
Doubts and sadness stay at home.Recovering old friendships
Many women tend to isolate themselves when they are engaged, forget their friends, and neglect old friendships to hang out only with his acquaintances.
If you, too, have gone off the grid and closed yourself off in your relationship, put aside your fears and pick up the phone.
It’s not nice to show up after four years with a Hey, how time goes by, but usually true friends forgive, they won’t abandon you, let this be a lesson to you for next time though.
5. Organize weekends
Fill your schedule like a CEO’s: visit friends who live abroad or in other cities, go away for two days to a spa in the middle of nowhere with girlfriends, decide even at the last minute, you can afford these headshots, especially in the summer when treating yourself to a weekend at the beach can completely change the mood.
6. Try a new sport
Getting results from a sport is always good for your self-esteem and also makes you feel more beautiful, more confident, stronger.
Choose something that makes you throw out all the discomfort, let off steam and accumulate results, it doesn’t matter if you’ve always been lazy as a mozzarella, this is your new life and you can do whatever you want, even suddenly become a sports person.
7. Changing hair color or cut
A great classic, it is always said that when you change you should also cut back and revolutionize your style: hair is our calling card and in times of change it should represent what you are experiencing.
Dare, it’s time to do it, do something you never thought of, make looking in the mirror become a surprise and a new pleasure.
8. Revamp your closet
If your closet is running out of evening outfits because it’s been so long since you’ve gone out after eleven o’clock at night, you need clothes immediately that are appropriate for your new evenings, and no, you absolutely cannot wear what you put on during the day.
When a relationship ends you need outfits that boost your self-esteem instantly and make you feel beautiful, you need it.
9. Attend all the events in town 14725Say yes to all the invitations they give you, click I will attend on repeat, say yes to everything and rather pack like there is no tomorrow, the important thing is that you choose a place to go.
It doesn’t matter if you haven’t shopped for two weeks or watched a TV series for a very long time, you’ve spent enough time on the couch when you were engaged, now it’s time to go to all the parties that man may have thrown in the world.
There is life on Earth, you just didn’t know it.
10. Kissing a stranger
You need a ferryman, someone to guide you out of your old relationship, to make you forget your ex.
Of course it won’t be that automatic, but the thought of being able to look at and kiss other men should, at least for a few seconds, make you feel full of possibilities.
Keep in mind that it’s not all diamonds out there, but in this period you should take it lightly don’t plan for the long term, just think about how it makes you feel at that moment and then tomorrow you’ll see.