Why don’t men court anymore? The answer from psychology
Are you wondering why men don’t court anymore? Actually, you have a point: unfortunately, courtship lately is often skipped in...
Top 5 things that make men fall for women
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1. Your first asset: the look!
Doubt it? And yet, what is it that will make this encounter, as furtive or fleeting as it may have been, turn into an unforgettable memory for these gentlemen, or even a request for 06… your eyes! Indeed, as a reflection of our emotions, the eyes are the gateway to the secret universe that you represent for others. With a glance, you can draw Jules into your world or… make him run away! He’ll sense that you’re interested, interesting, elusive, unattainable or simply incompatible… So, whether you’re natural or sophisticated: take care of your look and bet on him!
2. the impromptu let-go or the nice forgetfulness in the outfit:
Complicated this title? Let me explain: by these names, I mean the je ne sais quoi of off-beatness that will make you melt. The little charming detail that turns an outfit upside down or that stands out in a suave way in a behavior… like eyes to the sky during a boring meeting or a nicely muffled yawn. Like an unruly lock of hair along the temple, a nape of the neck that is discovered innocently by running a hand through the hair, lace that is revealed for a few seconds on a shoulder or along the edge of a skirt…
3. The Red Red !
Not the one that looks vulgar because it’s a thread, but the one that holds well and gives you a mouth to crunch and that crunches in life! Not the one that looks tacky because it’s not quite red, but the one whose shade is closest to that of a cherry and looks chic! It doesn’t have to be expensive, just well worn and well accompanied! Her best friends: the doe eye, the narrow but not short skirt (classy!) and the very high heels (in quality leather and above all not damaged!). Of course, you don’t have to combine them all. Mixing two will do the trick, it’s up to you and above all, dare to vary the combinations!
4. The intelligence of the heart and the brain…
2 types of intelligence for a range of actions, explanations: knowing how to listen to him, look at him but also accompany him in his hobbies and activities makes you irresistible in Jules’ eyes. Settle down with a pizza near the video console or put on your sneakers to go for a little run with him and you’ll earn points. Bring him backui his favorite soda, offer him the last comic book he was coveting but also know how to be discreet with his buddies or his family. In a word, adjust your behavior to the situation he’s going through… not how you’re going through it. This will allow you to let him take the place he deserves in his world as well as in yours. This will bring you his trust and respect, as many acts directly related to the intelligence of the heart as that of the brain, a mix between recognition of his emotions and adequacy of your acts in front of the situations lived together… a whole program…
5. A certain strength under the softness:
Or the art of reassuring him by letting him guess that you exist without him and that you are autonomous. Thus, attractive, feminine you are, but weak and desperate above all not! How to proceed you ask? Nothing could be simpler: keep your friends, your outings, continue to get involved in your various activities, whether professional or personal, while making room for him. A place of choice but not the central place. The latter you must reserve for yourself. Indeed, to make a man fall in love with you, there is nothing better than to feel good in your life, in your shoes and at ease with yourself first! If you proceed in this way, Jules, it is sure, will have only one desire: that this sun which emanates from you illuminates the longest his life too!
