Why don’t men court anymore? The answer from psychology
Are you wondering why men don’t court anymore? Actually, you have a point: unfortunately, courtship lately is often skipped in...
types of intense love relationships
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You despair of not finding your other half, you are not made for life as a couple or you are looking for intense and even new sensations? Know that you can live and feel very beautiful stories… The life of couple is not obligatory and the more you will take the head to seek the soul mate and the less you will find it. Let go of your love life and you may have the nice surprise of getting caught up in the game and meeting, who knows… true Love…
1. Virtual Love
The extraordinary thing about virtual love is that it connects souls all over the world. What the physical will never allow. (Patrick Louis Richard). It is a type of relationship that tends to develop more and more. Often we realize that behind the small screen our sensations are wonderful and sometimes fall back when we go from virtual to reality. Because via the small screen, we can imagine everything, it is like reading a book and seeing the movie: we idealize the characters, the places and we are sometimes disappointed when we see the movie.
So if you are constantly dissatisfied, try this type of relationship for a while. This web that you are going to weave with different people will give you confidence in yourself, you will be able to make beautiful friendships but especially to vibrate thanks to a virtual love which could perhaps even be transformed with time into true love… because one confides more easily behind the small screen what gives an intensity to the relation…
2. The Sex plan
You are single, disgusted of the couple life. And why not put some fun in your life? You will not deceive anybody while making you good… And then, say to you that that can be exciting with thousand leagues of the routine of a couple and then the advantage it is that you do not have any engagement, not question of being attached and you think selfishly only of your own pleasure!
Only your sexual pleasure counts and no more feelings! But be careful: both of you must agree on these rules! And you can change partners if you are not satisfied, always remembering to protect yourself, especially if you have multiple partners. Moreover, the relationship can mutually evolve and it can happen that a sex plan becomes a sex friend and who knows, eventually… the man or woman of your life…
3. Forbidden Love
Forbidden love is by definition exciting, which increases the sensations tenfold: it can be a difference in age or an adultery… It is a risky love and it should often be avoided that cupid gets involved at the risk of doing very very bad… And then the forbidden and / or the unusual must remain exceptional in order to keep their flavor… Small advice: if you let yourself be tempted by such a relationship, favour a short duration in order to keep the positive side of it… However, note that as George Sand said There is nothing impossible when you love each other a beautiful story can be born from a forbidden and even lead to a serious relationship… At the same time, he who tries nothing, has nothing, so daring to take risks can sometimes be salutary! Finally, to simply spice up a relationship, you can simply think of unusual places, you will take less risks but a lot of pleasure…
4. Passionate Love
Of all passions, love is the one that most upsets reason. (Madeleine de Scudéry). It is an impulsive love which one cannot resist but which often does not last because passion rarely leaves the place to a true and durable love. It is often an illusion… We think we have found our soul mate, it is sometimes even a mutual love at first sight, one and the other are attracted like two magnets. We live it on the moment, often by physical attraction, it is very strong, the sensations are multiplied tenfold, we feel in another reality, we satisfy our wildest fantasies … But do not idealize your partner too much, otherwise beware of the brutal awakening! Yes, Love-passion is often just a flash in the pan as Jules Claretie said…
