Why lie to yourself in love?
Meditation is also an excellent natural remedy to refocus and allow you to accept your negative emotions.Get out of your bubble, out of your passivity and take action: to avoid failure or disappointment, you stay in the status quo. But wake up, this is not a movie! You don’t trust yourself, you think no and you say yes, you force yourself and one day Badabooouummm! You explode. You have nightmares, you complain. You no longer find meaning in your life. Take the bull by the horns, don’t give in to the easy way, stop idealizing your partner, stop being always in the one-way compromise, stop making efforts because nature comes back at you and you waste your energy to forget yourself, to mask your unhappiness or else have the courage to question yourself and besides, don’t you have the impression of repeating the same pattern in all your love relationships? On the basis of this observation, act by initiating decisions and concrete solutions.
Communicate regularly with your partner both to dispel all doubts and to move forward yourself, to know yourself, to progress in your journey but also to evolve healthily in the relationship.
Finally, if you still find excuses and lie to yourself in your relationship, know that true courage is not to lie to yourself and as Oscar WILDE said First you deceive yourself, then you deceive others…