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Robin Walgast: Will Assist You in Establishing Healthy Relationship

Robin Walgast: Will Assist You in Establishing Healthy Relationship
Eloise Bouton
September 14, 2023
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Eloise Bouton
Eloise Bouton
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Finding love in the modern age comes with all sorts of questions and complications. That’s why I’m so pleased to have relationship expert Robyn Wahlgast here today. As the founder of New Direction Dating, Robyn has become a trusted voice on navigating the ups and downs of dating in the 21st century.

She’s here to tackle all our burning questions about building meaningful connections in today’s globally connected landscape. Whether it’s decoding cross-cultural relationships, succeeding at online dating, or balancing professional goals with romantic ones, Robyn’s wisdom and empathy will be invaluable. Let’s give her a warm welcome and dive into our conversation!

Eloise
Eloise

Thanks for that background. Now, as a career-driven woman in my 30s, I often worry my professional goals get in the way of dating success. What advice can you offer?

Robin
Robin

It’s common to feel that tension between career and relationships. I’d suggest first getting clear on the time you can realistically dedicate to dating without compromising your professional aspirations. Figure out a schedule that still allows for some free evenings or weekends for potential dates.

It’s also key to seek out partners who appreciate and support your ambitious drive. In early conversations, open up about your passion for your work and goals. The right match will admire your determination. Share any vulnerabilities too around wanting romance along with professional pursuits. Your authenticity can build intimacy.

Finally, get creative about efficiency. Can you multitask small bonding moments like grabbing coffee on the way to the office? Or schedule video chat dates when less available in-person? With strategic planning, you can absolutely have both professional accomplishments and relationship success.

Eloise
Eloise

That’s really helpful, thanks. Next question – as a woman coming out of a difficult divorce, I’m feeling very wary about dating again. How can I move forward in a healthy way?

 

Robin
Robin

It’s completely understandable to feel cautious about opening up again after heartbreak. I suggest being gentle with yourself and not rushing into anything you aren’t ready for. Focus first on self-care, healing and rediscovering happiness independently.

When you do feel ready to start moving forward, begin slowly. Try low-pressure social activities to build confidence being around new people. Use dating apps lightly at first. Remind yourself often that not every relationship will be like your past one – there are wonderful partners out there when the time is right. Consider counseling to work through lingering hurt before getting deeply involved again. With time and compassion, that hesitation can transform into hopefulness. Go at your own pace.

Eloise
Eloise

Thank you, those are reassuring words. Next, say I’m a woman in my 50s dating a man in his 30s – do you have any tips for navigating that major age gap?

Robin
Robin

There are definitely unique factors when there’s a considerable age difference. I’d suggest having open conversations about what you both want in life – are your visions aligned or might one want to settle down sooner? Check any assumptions about maturity levels.

Discuss strategies for handling judgements from others – building confidence as a couple is key. Also look for what you can appreciate about each other’s perspectives. If viewed thoughtfully, generational differences can enrich a relationship. With mutual empathy and respect, age gaps don’t have to be insurmountable barriers.

Eloise
Eloise

Interesting, I’ll keep that context in mind. Now, if I’m considering trying online dating for the first time, but feeling really hesitant about it, what advice or reassurance could you offer?

Robin
Robin

It’s very normal to feel hesitant about online dating initially. I’d suggest starting slowly – maybe just create a simple profile at first without pressure to be super active. As you get comfortable, try messaging only a few matches you’re truly interested in. For safety, avoid sharing too many personal details too quickly.

When you do agree to meet someone, choose a public place and let a friend know. Over time, lean into the aspects you enjoy, like the ability to gradually get to know matches. If you approach it with an open mind, online dating can expand possibilities. But go at your own pace and listen to your instincts.

Eloise
Eloise

Safety first makes sense. Okay, final scenario – if I’m dating someone from a very different cultural background than myself, how can we thoughtfully navigate those differences?

Robin
Robin

Cultural differences can bring wonderful richness, but also communication challenges. Have ongoing conversations sharing your family traditions, values, and worldviews. Check assumptions. Willingly try customs outside your own. There may be uncomfortable moments, but keep patience and curiosity.

If any irreconcilable core differences emerge, it may show incompatibility. But giving an intercultural relationship a real chance with empathy and respect can lead to tremendous mutual growth. The rewards are well worth the effort.

Eloise
Eloise

This has been such an enlightening and helpful discussion. Are there any final thoughts or pieces of advice you want to leave our readers with today?

Robin
Robin

I’ll just say – be patient with yourself and keep an open heart. The right connections take time to build. Stay focused on learning and growth, both personally and in relating to others. Understand your needs without judgement. With some faith and a little guidance when needed, you can create the loving relationships you seek.

Eloise
Eloise

Wonderful advice. Thank you so much for lending us your wisdom today, Robyn!

Eloise Bouton
Eloise Bouton
Eloise Bouton is a renowned dating expert and relationship coach with a passion for helping individuals navigate the often complex world of romance. With years of experience in the field, Eloise has become a trusted source of guidance for those seeking to enhance their dating lives and build meaningful connections.
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